A few weeks ago I wrote about life having other plans to us. Today, I am coping with another of life’s spanners that suddenly came my way.
Earlier last week I was doing great. I had put the finishing touches on a wreath I had been commissioned to make by a customer. The culmination of new ideas and hard work, I looked upon it with pride.
Safari ring wreath copyright Toni Reeder 2014
Work went well and I was enjoying the sunshine and signs of spring while out walking with my girls.
Pancake day saw us sitting down as a family to enjoying chocolate chip American breakfast pancakes (courtesy of Nigella).
I was enjoying life, enjoying catching up with family and friends and proud of my accomplishments. Then, suddenly, I began to feel increasingly sea-sick. Before I know it, I’m diagnosed with Labrynthitis and off work for a week.
If someone had told me about this illness, I would have struggled to believe it was real and so debilitating.
The last few days have seen me getting acquainted with my settee and bed. I’ve had to let my mum take over childcare while the other half has been at work. I have gone from holding on to walls to keep me upright to crawling on the floor to get around safely without being sick.
Maybe one day I will be able to laugh about it all….at the moment I don’t. I feel guilty; guilty I can’t take care of my children (who thank goodness are being endlessly patient), guilty I am not in work and teaching my students, guilty I am laying down while the world is moving on and around me. I am someone who likes independence and with this I am forced to rely on others and am struggling to deal with this fact.
What it has given me though, is time. Looking back, I wonder if this is telling me something – that I should slow down? That something in my life needs to change? That there’s something out of balance in my life? I’m not sure I’ve got the answers just yet but it seems I may have a while to mull it over.
Until next time,